Gossip

It’s so annoying that we’re so obsessed with other people. The world would be a better place to be if, people would care about themselves and not others.
The problem is that we can’t see ourselves without a mirror; we use other people to reflect us in. Only by putting us in relation to others, we can see what we’re worth. If the other person, is acting like an idiot, it is easier for ourselves to feel we’re  worth something , if the other person we are reflecting in, is a good person, is it always nice if we can find something bad about the person, so we can raise us self. If you’re together with other peoples, it is always nice to find a common subject or a person to tease, in that way we feel connected to the others.
Try to go through a whole day, without talking bad about other people! It’s not that easy as you would think, it’s really interesting to see how much shit we’re saying.
To stay together and find a common enemy, or and alliance, is a reflex action, we don’t think about it. We show up at a football match and suddenly we share a community, when all the persons there have the same T-shirt as you, the persons with other T-shirts are now automatically the enemy, it’s not longer a human like us, it’s: “They are not like us others”
We live our lives as everything is a fight that should be won, with a thought, words or a move. For every new organization or society we will make, there will be a fight for their opinions, there will just be new issues and wars. With other words; you can’t FIGHT for peace, fighting are not peace and it will never be. The way to peace is in us.
This is interesting; Every time we talk bad behind other’s backs, it’s because we feel inadequacy. Sadly it’s hard to get a world with peace and love, when most of the people that live in it, are unlucky and feel inadequate. So the first step in the right way to a better world is; that we have to learn that we are good enough.
It always makes me happy to think that every person in the world is doing their best. Even a murderer or a thief does not whish to be mean (but maybe special, fearless ect.) You’re at a level in your life and you have to act with the resources you have, and act as good as you can.
So you should always remember to do the best you can. Everybody makes mistakes, and it means nothing, especially not if you just are trying to do your best.